How Dolly Partonâs husband Carl Dean inspired Jolene
Country music iconâ??s husband of almost 60 years died this week
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Dolly Parton has paid tribute to her husband, Carl Dean, following his death aged 82.
The country music legend met her first and only husband, a businessman who owned a Nashville asphalt company, when she was 18, on the day she moved to the Tennessee capital. They were married two years later on 30 May 1966.
âI was surprised and delighted that while he talked to me, he looked at my face (a rare thing for me),â Parton wrote of their encounter outside the Wishy Washy Laundromat. âHe seemed to be genuinely interested in finding out who I was and what I was about.â
In a statement, Parton, 79, said Dean died on Monday 3 March. A cause of death was not disclosed.
âCarl and I spent many wonderful years together. Words canât do justice to the love we shared for over 60 years. Thank you for your prayers and sympathy,â she said.
Through the years, Dean inspired much of Partonâs work, most famously âJoleneâ, one of her biggest hits, when he became the subject of a flirtatious bank tellerâs attention.
She regaled her audience at Glastonbury with the story behind the song in 2014, when she performed in the legends slot on the Pyramid Stage.
âNow, some of you may or may not know that this song was loosely based on a little bit of truth,â she told her fans. âI wrote that years ago when my husband [was] spending a little more time with Jolene than I thought he should be.â
As the crowd booed, she continued: âI got rid of that redhead woman in a hurry. I want you folks to know, though, that something good can come from anything. Had it not been for that woman I would never have written âJoleneâ, and I wouldnât have made all that money, so thank you, Jolene.â
Fifty years after the song was first released, Parton reflected on how it had affected her relationship with Dean during an appearance on the BBCâs The One Show.
âHe was a little embarrassed when I wrote the song âJoleneâ because, actually, it wasnât as serious [as it seems],â she explained.
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âI was just jealous âcause she was a beautiful woman and he was just flirting.â
Dolly Parton performing at Glastonbury Festival (PA )
A number of other artists have covered âJoleneâ over the years, including Partonâs goddaughter Miley Cyrus, who has also duetted on the song with her on several occasions.
More recently, pop megastar Beyoncé featured her take on the song on her Grammy-winning 2024 album, Cowboy Carter. Parton praised Beyoncéâs lyrical changes, commenting: âBeyoncé is giving that girl some trouble and she deserves it.â
In an interview with The Independent, Parton said that Dean also inspired her 2023 album Rockstar, as many of the songs she chose to cover were his favourites.
Dolly Parton on the cover of her 2023 album, âRockstarâ (Butterfly Records via AP )
Parton and Dean kept their relationship strictly private, prompting her to tell the Associated Press in 1984 that people often doubted her husbandâs existence.
âA lot of people say thereâs no Carl Dean, that heâs just somebody I made up to keep other people off me,â she said, joking that he had only seen her perform once. She added that he was a âromanticâ who would occasionally write poems for her.
âWeâre really very proud of our marriage. Itâs the first for both of us. And the last,â Parton wrote in 2011.
Dean is survived by Parton and by his two living siblings, Sandra and Donnie.
Partonâs statement this week said that Dean will be laid to rest in a private ceremony, with âimmediate familyâ attending.