Sean 'Diddy' Combs' List of Party Must-Haves Included Baby Oil, Ketamine, and Sex Toys
Sean 'Diddy' Combs' assistant stocked his parties with a number of items. He shared what Diddy wanted at each party.
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Sean 'Diddy' Combs' parties have fallen under heavy scrutiny. Here is what his assistant said Combs wanted on hand at each party.
by Emma McKee
Published on January 30, 2025
Allegations about Sean âDiddyâ Combsâ parties continue to surface. Combsâ former assistant, Phil Pines, said he had to help organize the events as part of his job. He recalled what Combs wanted to have available at these lengthy, debaucherous affairs.Â
According to Pines, who worked for Combs between 2019 and 2021, Combs asked him to obtain a number of items ahead of his parties.Â
âWe usually had a laundry list of items that included lights, alcohol, marijuana, ketamine, Molly,â Pines said in the docu-series The Fall of Diddy (via The Hollywood Reporter). âYou have mushrooms on the top there ⌠baby oil and astroglide [lubricant] are very important; candles, incense, Apple TVs, electronics, computers, iPads. Obviously there was, you know, male libido supplements, stuff like that.â
Sean âDiddyâ Combs | Mindy Small/FilmMagic
Per Rolling Stone, Pines also managed Combsâ sex toys, including a device called the âpower banger sex machine.â Part of his job involved helping with the clean-up of these lengthy âsexual escapades,â which he described as âdemoralizing.â
âYou could slip because there was baby oil all over the floor,â he said. âWhen I would go into these rooms, itâs like no one had any consciousness of what took place, meaning that everything was everywhere.â
While Pines said he was not present for Combsâ freak offs, he was familiar with his Wild King Nights. These parties took place in hotel rooms, and the guest list allegedly included many young women.
âA lot of times, there were girls that were under the radar, didnât have a lot of influence,â Pines said. âI think that speaks to the type of situations people were put in.â
Pines believed the uneven power dynamic was intentional.
âA lot of times, you have [Combs] with a young female, and thereâs a power dynamic there,â he said. âA more impressionable girl is easier to reel in, as opposed to somebody who might be a celebrity whoâs not going to do too much of that, or give some pushback.â
Pines said Combs was almost always accompanied by a woman. He believed his former boss needed constant reassurance.
Sean âDiddyâ Combs | Bryan Bedder/CP/Getty Images for CP
âMy observation was that a woman made him feel like a man. And always having somebody around [made him] feel like that. That was kind of his insecurity, in my experience,â Pines said. âI never saw him sleep aloneâŚ. In two years, I think it was maybe seven to eight times when he would sleep by himself, and I started to kind of put it together that there was something wrong. Like, he needed somebody with him to make him feel comfort. And it was always a guest.â
Combs is currently in a Brooklyn jail awaiting trial.
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