Who Was Gene Hackman's Wife, Betsy Arakawa? How Many Times Was He Married?
Who was Gene Hackman's wife, Betsy Arakawa? Here's what to know about their romance and what went wrong in his first marriage.
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How many times was Gene Hackman married? Here's what to know about his love life and his relationship with his wife, Betsy Arakawa.
by Lauren Weiler
Published on February 27, 2025
Gene Hackman had an incredible acting career with two Academy Awards, four Golden Globes, and two British Academy Films Awards under his belt. Sadly, he and his wife, Betsy Arakawa, and their dog were found dead in February 2025. So, who was Arakawa, and how many times did Hackman tie the knot? Hereâs what to know about Hackmanâs wives.
Gene Hackman and wife Betsy Arakawa at the 60th Annual Golden Globe Awards in 2003 | Jeffrey Mayer/WireImage
Gene Hackman, 95, and his wife, Betsy Arakawa, 63, were tragically found dead in their home in February 2025. Authorities have no suspicion of foul play.
So, who is Arakawa? Born in Hawaii, she was a pianist before becoming an entrepreneur. Arakawa co-owned a furnishing business in Santa Fe, New Mexico, where she and Hackman lived. She preferred to live out of the spotlight despite her husbandâs fame. Hackman told The Irish Independent in 2000 that living in Santa Fe allows him to remain unbothered âby the latest gossip.â He didnât feel he had to stay in Los Angeles to remain successful in his career. âNot that many movies are shot there anymore,â he explained.
Arakawa and Hackman met in the mid-â80s while she worked part-time at a gym in California. They tied the knot in 1991.
The couple appeared passionate about remodeling their home and watching movies. In 2020, Hackman revealed to Empire Magazine that he enjoyed watching âDVDs that my wife rents; we like simple stories that some of the little low-budget films manage to produce.â The publication also revealed that Hackman took up writing, and Arakawa would type what he wrote longhand.
The couple eluded paparazzi photos for 21 years until recently. Photographers last caught Arakawa and Hackman together in March 2024. They had a dinner outing at Pappadeauxâs Seafood Kitchen in New Mexico.
Gene Hackman and Faye Maltese | Ron Galella/Ron Galella Collection via Getty Images
Betsy Arakawa was Gene Hackmanâs second wife. He previously married Faye Maltese, a secretary at Rockefeller Center, in 1956. They had three children: Christopher Allen, 65, Elizabeth Jean, 63, and Leslie Anne Hackman, 58. The couple met in 1955 at a YMCA dance in New York City. Hackman was 25 at the time.
Hackman wasnât famous when he and Maltese fell in love. However, his relationship changed when he attained fame on Broadway and the big screen. He and Maltese divorced in 1986.
âEven though I had a family, I took jobs that would separate us for three or four months at a time,â Hackman admitted to The New York Times in 1989. âThe temptations in that, the money and recognition â it was too much for the poor boy in me. I wasnât able to handle that.â
Hackman also discussed the end of his marriage to Maltese with The Sun Sentinel in 1985. âBy the way, I did not leave my real-life wife for a younger woman,â the actor verified. âWe just drifted apart . . . We lost sight of each other. When you work in this business, marriage takes a great deal of work and love.â
âPeople do drift away from each other,â he continued. âWe do the best we can.â
Gene Hackman spoke to Larry King in 2004 about death. The actor noted he didnât âhave a lot of fearâ surrounding the subject. Hackman also explained how he dealt with heart issues, including âsevere anginaâ over a decade earlier.
âI try to take care of myself,â he said. âI donât have a lot of fears. I have the normal fear of passing away. You know, I guess we all think about that, especially when you get to be a certain age . . . I want to make sure that my wife and my family are taken care of. Other than that, I donât have a lot of fears.â
Elements of this article were originally reported by Newsweek and DailyMail.com,
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